St. Louis--day 1!!!

I am finally home. I just got done picking up Jr. and finally got all my stuff and his stuff carried inside. I wanted to talk all about mine and sexy's trip to Missouri.

We left early Thursday morning. On the agenda was to drive to St. Louis, go to the cathedral, go to the contemporary art museum, check into the bed and breakfast, go to dinner, then to a lesbian bar and then back to the bed and breakfast for hot tub and friskyness. Can you believe it, we actually got that all done and we didn't even get to St. Louis till around 2pm. The drive to St. Louis was nice. I drove, sexy dj'd. It is so nice to go on a trip with someone who is nice to talk to and keeps me entertained while i'm driving. We arrived at the Cathedral Basilica around 2 and it was so beautiful. There were a lot of mosaics. There was even a mosaic museum there. Sexy and I both saw some very neat designs made out of mosaics. The topic of conversation turned towards tattoos when we saw this really awesome mosaic. Lets just say you may be seeing a similar mosaic from the cathedral on sexy or I one day. Then it was off to the Contemporary Art Museum were they had a special showing of Andy Warhol and Jim Hodges work. It was very interesting. I am definitely seeing myself getting more into art. After that we went to our bed and breakfast. We stayed at the Brewers House. When we got there we had a nice note from the owner telling us where are room was and to make ourselves at home. We found our room is was so cute and charming. A huge king size bed was in the room with a 3 paneled mirror above it. I am not joking!!! We carried all of our stuff in and then started to decide where to go for dinner. We decided on this Brazilian restaurant that turned out to not be that far away from our B&B. It was called Yemanja Brasil Restaurant. It was very good. The dessert was to die for. It was called Pavee da nena. Click on the link and you can see why it was so good. It was then off to Novak's which is a popular lesbian bar in St. Louis. Was a nice atmosphere. We didn't stay long, just long enough for one drink. That evening they were going to have a drag show but sexy and I decided that getting in the hot tub and friskyness sounded better. We headed back to the B&B. Right after we got there Rick, the friendly owner, showed up and took the cover off the hot tub for us. We enjoyed sometime in the hot tub and then retired to the bedroom.

Great Trip!

Sexy and I just got home from our trip. We had a great time. Details and words of the day will come soon I promise but right now I am exhausted. I have to go back to work tomorrow and I need some sleep.

Leaving Now!!!

I've been cleaning and packing all day. I am ready now. It is always nice to go on a trip and then come back to a fairly clean house. I am getting ready to leave to take my son to his father and then it is off to Sexy's. We will be leaving early in the morning to go to St. Louis and then on to Waynesville on Friday to visit and old college friend of mine. I am really looking forward to this trip. I will let you know all about it when I get back. See Ya!!

Better Day

When we last left off my life seem to be falling about in front of my eyes. I have to say things are much better now. I really had a peace come over me Monday that if Sexy and I talked this out and understood where each one of us was coming from we could work it out. That is exactly what we did. I am so happy that we got past this first really major bump in the road. We decided to focus on the now and we will deal with things when they come. A really great idea!

Now to update everyone on my new words. Friday's word was ewer. Saturday's word was vie. Sunday's word was furtive. Yesterday's word was imp and today's word is crony. I absolutely love the word imp. I definitely know some imps. I am going to make a list eventually of all of the words. Would you like me to post the definitions also? Give me some feedback.

What to do?

I know I left you all hanging and I am sorry. I am still in Iowa at my parents and it has been rough. I don't really feel like getting into depth about what happen. So, the brief version is I have been thinking about ways to get out of debt and one way was to possible move back to Iowa for a year. Don't really want to but thought it might be the best plan. So many things would have to happen in order for it to work out.....like a job most importantly. I felt like I shouldn't keep sexy in the dark about it so I decided to tell her Friday night when Jr. and I went over to dye easter eggs. Well, the evening did not start out good. Sexy was ticked off at me for a text message i sent being all silly. She definitely interpreted what I was saying the wrong way. I felt bad.....really bad. I apoligized and we talked about it and it was ok after that. Jr. and I walked up to the local taco shop to get dinner. After dinner we started to color eggs. We then had some time where we hid eggs and hunted for them. It was very nice and a good time. Then sexy gave me a gift. She gave me the cutest pair of shoes. They are green and purple. It was so sweet and I love the shoes!!!

Then things started to get bad. I told sexy what I was thinking about and possible moving to Iowa. She was agreeing and saying maybe that would be the best. Then I said I know it would be hard but I would still see her. Her reaction was definitely not what I expected. It was that we would not be together if I moved to Iowa. I knew it would be hard but i figured we would at least try. I didn't know what to say to that. So, I left feeling hurt and very unloved. So I have spent all weekend thinking about sexy and our relationship. And the worst part is I won't see her till probably Wednesday night and we are suppose to leave THursday for our trip.

I love Chicago and I would love to stay here. Sexy has told me she doesn't want to be the only reason I stay in chicago but if I move somewhere else we will not stay together. I feel like this is a no win situation. What do I do???

Impossible Situation

Don't feel like blogging right now. I am feeling very unloved at the moment. Things are not very good with sexy and I. I hate impossible situations!!!

Is your larder full?

First I will update you all on my words for the last two days. Yesterdays word was larder and todays word is demure. Thank you Connie and Anonymous for the words. Some of you may want to know were I am getting my words from and why I started this all. Well, I bought this crossword book and as I started doing the puzzles I realized I was having to look up some words. I had just had a conversation with sexy about how I should learn a new word a week and when I realized there are so many words that I don't know I decided I could easily do a word a day. I am keeping a list of them in my calendar. I will try to post my words daily. On a side note crossword puzzles are addicting. I love that kind of thinking. I am having all these new addictions lately. Maybe I should be concerned!!!

NA!!!